Have you learn to accept the fact that all humans will die one fine day? Or are you one of those people who aren’t keen to accepting this fact and is in some ways, living in a state of denial?
There are people amongst us who aren’t willing to accept this death-fact. It is probably due to fear. But then again, who’s not afraid of dying? Unless you’ve achieved everything you need to achieve, or has reached some level of enlightenment, I bet to a certain extend, everyone is afraid of dying — me included. Being afraid of dying does not mean you avoid the topic of death altogether. Death will happen whether you like it or not. It is just a matter of time before it happens.
Learning to accept and understand the death phenomenal allows a person to live their life to the fullest. Knowing that death can happen helps one to be more appreciative of what is in the present. In true fact, preparing for one’s death is actually preparing for one to live a better life.
As what Morrie once said;
…once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.
So, have you accepted the fact that you will die one day? If you have, I’m sure living a life filled with appreciation isn’t all that difficult. Remember not to live in denial, coz death is gonna happen. What matters is what you’re gonna do with that life of yours before death comes knocking at your door.



Nothing is “right” at this moment. 8 more hours to being in a place I don’t want to be in. The worst part is to have this whole thing last for a good 10 days.
*gag*
To top it up with the waiting and other i$$ue$; this is so not funny.
For now, I just want to disappear. Bikini bottom may not be a bad place to be right now. Squidward, wanna switch? I don’t mind taking your spot for a while (ignore if you are clueless as to what I’m talking about — I’m just being nonsensical).


Published on
February 26, 2010 in
emotions and me.
Published on
February 24, 2010 in
love and movies.

This is a story about love. This is a story of boy meets girl, boy falls in love, but girl doesn’t. This is a story where boy believes in love and girl believes nothing of love and that it is just a fantasy. This is a story of boy and girl getting together, doing things that couples do only to have the girl refusing to put a label on them. This is a story of girl getting married, not to this boy, but to another boy that she fell in love with. This is a story of girl who once do not believe in love, finds love. This is a story of boy keeping his faith and his little belief in love, and move on.
This is not a love story. This is a story about love.
And this fictional story resurfaces certain things that happened in reality. For me that is.
Love the movie. Love the soundtrack.


Why do most humans only learn the lesson of appreciation through losing? Coz most humans are stupid.
I’ve spoken to a lot of people and they believe that to make someone appreciate the things you have done, you have to take it away from them. So, if you love a person a lot (like really a lot), you have to pretend to love that person less so that he or she will know that in actual fact, you are loving that person a whole lot. Make sense?
*blank*
Not to me. Talk about humans being complicated.
Most humans believe they have all the time in the world to waste on doing crazy stuff like I-shall-not-show-you-how-I-feel-so-you-will-know-how-I-truly-feel. It’s sad that most humans only react to negativity and not when things are positive. When it is about betrayal, cheating, ugly competitions, you can count on most humans to fight back and make their stand. But what happens when it is about a true love, family love? Most humans take it for granted. Appreciation is not there when the good things are right in front of them. And then these humans have to complain when good things don’t happen.
*silent argh*
I don’t understand. I don’t think I will ever learn to understand. Then again, maybe I don’t have to understand. I just need to make sure I’m not like most humans. For now, I know I’m not. If I love someone, I will show that someone how much I love him. If I am thankful for certain things that happened, I will show gratitude to that person who has helped. I just don’t want to regret not doing enough or saying enough when I had my chance.
When your life is filled with what ifs, that’s when you know you could have done so much more to make it better.
*shrug*
Oh well.
*sigh*
Monday hasn’t been good. Next week will bound to be worse. And before the end of this CNY, I doubt there will be any changes. For now, I’m feeling like this…



Today marks the 6th day of the Chinese New Year and the celebration has been pretty awesome so far.
It has always been a tradition in our family to play mahjong during CNY. Mahjong sessions are usually crazy enough. With the addition of Pictionary and Taboo this year — the laughter is ROARING off the roof! One of the main contributor to all the laughters for all the 3 games has got to be my beloved dad. Downright hilarious this Mr Seow. Not forgetting all the other members of the Seow clan; mum, sisters, aunties, uncles and cousins.
But the KL CNY session has got to end with me being down with diarrhea. Must have been all the food. It was bad. Really bad (though I must admit that in spite of the running-to-the-toilet activities, I still wanted to go to Jalan 222 for their nasi lemak and otak-otak – but didn’t go, of coz).
In less than 7 hours, we will be driving back to Penang for the 2nd part of the CNY celebration. Hopefully it’ll continue to be as awesome as it has been in KL. Although I know some parts will still remain stationary (which is not exactly something I’m hoping for) but perhaps a game or two of Pictionary may just make things better.
Hope the start of this Tiger year has been ROARING for you!


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