Stephen Gately, one of the Boyzone singers (whom I’m secretly fond of — I think I’m somewhat attracted to his slightly higher pitch), passed away earlier today at the age of 33. According to Telegraph.co.uk, it is not yet known how Gately died, but he was out for some drinks, came back to his accommodation to rest, and never did woke up the following day.
Tomorrow did not come for him.
I sometimes cannot help but wonder what does it take for a person to realize that certain things and certain people will never come by their life ever again. The people that go away; it could be death, or it could be you allowing someone walking out of your life forever. There are a lot of things in life where you’ll never get a second chance. Things happen for a reason, but they can stop happening for a reason too. Sometimes, when a person decides to walk away, there can be no turning back.
Here’s a poem written by Norma Cornett Marek, which I found in the book An Hour to Live, An Hour to Love; a book I read a year an a half ago. A book which I find very moving. The poem goes like this;
Tomorrow Never Comes
If I knew it would be the last time that I’d see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly, and pray the Lord your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time that I’d see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss, and call you back for just one more.
If I knew it would be the last time I’d hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would tape each word and action, and play them back throughout my days.
If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two,
To stop and say “I love you” instead of assuming you know I do.
So just in case tomorrow never comes, and today is all I get,
I’d like to say how much I love you, and I hope we never will forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes, you’ll surely regret the day.
That you didn’t take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
And you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear,
That you love them very much, and you’ll always hold them dear.
Take time to say “I’m sorry,” “Please forgive me,” “thank you” or “it’s okay.”
And if tomorrow never comes, you’ll have no regrets about today.
-Norma Cornett Marek
I try my very best to let the people I know I love them. I say it as often as I can coz I have felt how short life can be. Certain things in life are worth the wait, but if it gets a little too long, maybe it’s not all that worth it after all. Who knows, tomorrow may never come for me.
Make the most out of today coz today is what matters most.
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