Monthly Archive for June, 2011

Suit Up!

I love Barney Stinson and his Suit Up! phrase. He used it so often in How I Met Your Mother that I think as of today, it has truly become legendary.

To be honest, there’s nothing wrong with suiting up. Perhaps in the series, his interpretation of suiting up is to dress in suits, like how he dress up everyday for work. But suit up simply means putting on clothes that is suitable for a designated activity, be it for work, for sports, for a dinner date or for bed. There is a certain range of clothing that is suitable for each activity.

However, it is sad to know that some individuals are still very lost in the context of dressing up. To be honest, how you dress simply defines how much respect you have for yourself, as well as the activity you are attending. It will also set a first impression for new people you are about to meet. Is it important? Hell yea it is! First impressions are one of those things that you want to get it right on the first try. It actually takes a long time to shake off the first impression you have on someone. Humans shouldn’t judge you say? Well, live with the fact that all humans judge to a certain extend. Hence, making a first impression becomes very substantial.

I’m always amaze by how some people can actually put on a sloppy oversized T-shirt with a pair of super worn out pants and get to work. It’s okie to wear T-shirt sometimes, but at least make an effort to tuck in to make yourself look neat. I’ve also seen some girls who comes to work in super tight mini dresses, or super low cut revealing blouses. Come on girls, I’m sure you know that you’re here to work and not to party, right? At one point, many of the girls in one of our office in Asia were turning up to work in mini skirts and singlets to a point it got so out of hand that other people from other companies who sits in the same building said that employees from our company dress up like whores. It wasn’t a very nice description but there’s no one to blame but themselves, no?

I’m not a vain pot. Don’t get me wrong. Nonetheless, I feel it is important to dress to suit the occasion. There’s an attire that is suitable for every activity. Images are important. Hence, it is up to you to choose if you want to dress like a million bucks, or to dress like a sloppy-average-joe-I-don’t-give-a-damn-about-anything. And when you cannot even give a damn about dressing nicely, don’t expect others to give a damn about you.

So, to me, I would have to say, SUIT UP!

embrace the differences

When one of our guy friends posted this pic on FB sometime back with the title “NEW BOOK ON HOW TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN”, it got me to realize that till this very day, grown up men still think women are complicated. People got to commenting on the pic, and a guy mentioned that it will only require a page to understand men. And the comments on this topic became a full blown men vs women sort of discussion. Things like, “we men stick together and women don’t, and we men are simple and women are complicated and women gave men a headache” started to come out. I wonder why these guys ever go after the ladies to begin with. And then get married if women truly gave them such a headache. Is it all about sex? But then again, men don’t need to get married to do it in bed, right?

So shallow.

*tsk tsk tsk*

The thing is, as last as long you are a human, you are bound to be complicated. So little boys, please stop saying that you only need one page when the “NEW BOOK ON HOW TO UNDERSTAND MEN” is equally thick. Men and women are just different species. They will always be different. Live with that. Embrace it and work around it. No one gender is better or more superior than the other. Men and women have their share of pros and cons. And it is the pros and cons that made these 2 species go together. In fact, it is a beautiful unison, especially when true love is involved. :)

Men who still believe that women are complicated simply haven’t been able to let go of their ego and admit the fact that we are all humans, with our sets of good and bad. There’s no point trying to change or hope that a women will think and behave like a men. Think about it boys, would you have really prefer to date a dude?

Ultimately, we are just different. Stop complaining. Even if such a book exist, it won’t help men to understand if men are not willing to erase the belief within them that they are simple and women are complicated. Coz that, my friend, is not true. We are different because the things we want in life are different. That’s all.

Live with the differences and stop whining like a baby. Alternatively, please date a dude. ;)

One for One

With every pair you purchase, TOMS will give a pair of new shoes to a child in need. One for One. ™

It would be difficult to say no to a movement with such objective. Furthermore, the shoe is comfy, and cute! ;) Wanna know more? Visit their website.

my favorite bookstore

I use to get all my books from the bookstore available in Malaysia; MPH, Popular, Borders, Kinokuniya, Times. It is good to get books locally coz you get to start reading almost instantly. No waiting needed. But the thing about the local bookstores is the fact that they don’t usually take in a lot of books. Not the latest books at least. One has to wait for some time before certain books travel into Malaysia. You can place an order through the bookstore, but they will usually put additional surcharge on top of the price of the book, and you have to wait approximately 6 weeks.

And then come one beautiful morning last year when Linda told me about this brilliant bookstore. Online. With free international shipping.

Introducing — BookDepository.com

I was skeptical at first, knowing that buying things from other countries online would usually mean a significant amount of money needed to pay for shipping. Though it is stated free international shipping on their website, I was afraid that there may just be catch!

After my first purchase last year, I’ve fallen madly in love with this bookstore. All the books you can imagine can be purchased from this online store, even moleskine notebooks!! They are absolutely awesome, coz the price of the books are cheaper than the books sold in the local stores here in Malaysia, there is no additional charges for shipping nor is there any tax imposed, the books usually arrive in approximately 2 – 3 weeks upon purchase, books can be pre-ordered even before it is published at a really low price, they throw in a free bookmark everytime you buy a book and they give out discounts every now and then!

This bookstore definitely spells Awesome with a capital A. Make that a capital A.W.E.S.O.M.E. Love it. Will I be buying more books from BookDepository? You bet. Why not give this store a try.

n.i.c.e

Though there were some dramas along the way, I thought the weekend was nothing short of awesome. May I have more of this in the future. Thank you.

to believe

For some of us, it is tough to believe the fact that there is such a love where this one single person is capable of loving us for eternity. Literally. If somehow,we choose not to believe in such love, spending our time, questioning about it instead of embracing the love showered to us, wouldn’t that have been such a huge waste?

I know it’s tough. It’s tough to think someone will stick by us in spite of all the imperfections within us. But I am sure it is possible. If only we choose to believe.

Just a thought.

p/s: I need a holiday.



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