Monthly Archive for August, 2011

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truth will prevail

In whatever we do in life, nothing beats telling the truth. Nothing beats honesty. Even if there’s this slight thought within us that says perhaps telling a white lie would be better, don’t do it. A lie will always come back and bite you in the ass someday, even if it is a white lie. I guess a lot of people just don’t want to admit to what a lie can do and will constantly cover a lie with another lie, until it is too late. What good does it do when things are too late?

HONESTY IS the best policy and the TRUTH will ultimately prevail. No matter what. Period.

bit by bit

Sometimes, I would sit down and wonder about the things that have happened in my life. The people I’ve met, the things I have encountered, the stories I’ve heard, the lessons I’ve learned, all of which have made the me I am today. A super-emo-all-about-love gal.

:)

It is amazing how lessons in life can be so priceless. It is not something you can google or find in a text book. Some of these lessons are earned through the experience itself, making it even more priceless. It is these life lessons that shape the real you.

Up till this very day, I still believe everything happens for a reason. Sometimes the coincidental situation is not so much of a coincidence. I don’t think there’s so many coincidences in life. It’s just a way of making us learn. Sometimes we choose to ignore these situations. But if we study each situation carefully, there is a hidden lesson to be learned. From trying to find a job to reading certain messages you are not supposed to read, from meeting new acquaintances to having a long chat with an old friend, from the countless arguments and the endless laughter shared, every situation has something to offer.

I don’t know if any of us have ever thought of life that way, a medium who is constantly throwing bits and pieces of lessons in our face, hoping that we will learn the little things to make us a little better. It’s like a secret code, and it is waiting for us to decipher.

As for me, I’m still learning. Everyday. Bit by bit. I’m at this stage where all the lessons that can be taught is thrown at me at one go. Everything, from career, to relationship, to family. It does get a little overwhelming sometimes, trying to connect those dots to make everything make sense. Coz at this point, it doesn’t make sense at all. Confused as hell.

I’m determined to make this work. Somehow. I’ll figure this out one day, after I find a way to decipher the codes. But until then, I believe everything happens for a reason. The dots will connect one day. Maybe not now, but I’m sure it will.

Nite.

loving u

I am truly a sucker when it comes to love. My belief for what love is has stand strong for many years, after discovering the beauty of love. It isn’t about the butterflies fluttering in your stomach when he comes up to you and say hi, nor is it about not being able to sleep and eat simply coz you’re in love. To me, it is about the union of 2 souls, trying hard to make the best out of the relationship, bringing out the best of one another when they are together.

It is easy to love someone for their good side. If someone pays more attention to you, make extra effort to care for you, be there when you need them, what is there not to love, right? It is sometimes the good side that allows us to forget about the bad side, temporarily. One day, when the good side becomes a norm, the bad side will surface. Do you stop loving that someone then? Do you love them less? If loving someone is all about loving them for their good side, you will never settle down for anyone. Perhaps one will need to settle for a few, to get a diverse area of good stuff.

When you truly love a person, in spite of the bad behaviors they may have, you can’t help but smile and say to yourself, ‘he’s my man’. When you truly love a person, even when he drives you up the wall with his crazy habits and attitude, you can’t help but wipe away those tears, smile and say to yourself, ‘he’s my man’. When you truly love a person, even when it comes to a point that his love for you may depreciate, you look at him and say to yourself, ‘he’s my man’.

Both party has to work together in a relationship. No one is perfect. You’ve just got to find the one that is perfect for you, in his own little imperfect way. When those tears are wiped away, you can still find it in your heart to say ‘I Love You’, then yes, he’s that imperfect guy who is perfect for you.

swinging in Gula

The weekend had been awesome. Picture waking up to the smell of the sea, having the sea breeze blowing at your face every waking moment, riding my bike in a fishing village, savoringĀ in nothing but the freshest seafood, amazing hospitality from the locals; it is nothing but bliss.

Swinging in a hammock tops it all.

Oh! Not forgetting a little friend I made while I was there. He reminds me of Mickey, who passed on recently (RIP Mickey). Since no one could tell me his name, I shall name him Gula Doggie. Super cute. Greets us with a huge smile and a big tail-wagged as soon as we arrived at the platform. Gula Doggie definitely loves a good pet and a good scratch.

So here he is, Gula Doggie. ;)

I don’t mind going back to Kuala Gula someday. And I definitely don’t mind going back to see Gula Doggie again. :)



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