August has been a load of madness and happiness. Lots of traveling, crazy activities and constant thinking (but of course). Met some really nice people (and some not so nice – blah). In a nutshell;
- Beach holidays are the best!
- Diving is still superbly fun and I want to do more.
- I got my first ticket outside of Malaysia due to extreme blindness.
- Kermit the Frog, my favorite froggy, has a star on the Hollywood walk of fame!
- Jetlag can do crazy things to a person.
- Sea water at Cannon Beach during summer is freezing cold at 1C.
- Driving on the right side of the road feels the same.
- Seeing how trust of a decade is broken breaks certain faith.
- Still waiting.
Hoping for a good September. 
*teehee*
Two is better than one. With you that is.
p/s: pics uploaded in flickr. *wheeeeee*
What is a marriage? To me, a marriage is a promise 2 souls make to each other to love and cherish both individuals till ‘death do us part’. No? Being in a relationship is all about love and trust and sacrificing and compromising between the 2. No? In spite of the flaws that an individual may have, one can still wake up in the morning, 50 years from now thinking, ‘awww… I love this person so much’. No?
What is a marriage?
I still believe that the UP couple exist in real life. But many have told me UP couple is just fictional. That a marriage will just come to a point where there will be no love. It is not possible to wake up 50 years later and still have that same love feeling u have for the person sleeping next to you. All you feel after a while is just a sense of responsibility. Really? I mean seriously? If that’s the case, why bother getting married? We can all just continue going through the dating process and continue to change partners everytime we feel there’s ‘no-love’ anymore. Wouldn’t that be better for everyone?
It is bad enough to hear couples of my parents’ generation getting divorces after 20 to 30 years of marriage. To hear stories of people my age getting divorces, after only being married for a couple of years felt like a slap in the face.
Oh, and allow me to stress that when there is no love, the crazy 10 to 20 years that the two have been together is NOT going to save the relationship. The number of years is not a valid measurement of the strength of a relationship. No where near. I’ve hear too many people actually saying that they are getting married simply coz they have been together for a long time. All so very wrong.
*sigh*
So, what is a marriage to you?
Yea, I think it is pretty amazing. Make that absolutely out of this world amazing. How often does that happen to you? Sure is rare to me. Make that once.
p/s: best song to go with this thought — Paperweight by Joshua Radin and Schuyler Fisk. love this song.
I don’t fancy coming back to reality. Especially if it is on a Monday. Certain things are still as it is, and I don’t think it is all that healthy. Will things ever happen?
On top of that, I think I’m coming down with a cold.
*aaaachoooo*
Excuse me.
*sniffles*
Again, I guess I can only do this much. I just don’t want anymore unpleasant dreams.
Weekend has been lovely.
I’ve always believe that everyone has a limit. The limits are definitely different for every individual, but everyone has one defined limit for their own. Everyone draws a line to a certain situation and say “that is enough”. It is hard to figure out the limit another person possesses, unless you simply test the patience of that person. However, there could be a chance that one may go overboard when testing it, forcing that person to go beyond their limits, entering a point of no return. Sometimes, we don’t want that to happen.
What Emma did to Will in the latest episode of Glee is exactly the outcome when a guy pushes a girl to a point of no return, especially when she loves him to bits (although I’m gonna guess that they will eventually get back together coz it is after all a fictional TV series). Perhaps some would have understood this before having the need to experience it. To some, maybe they just need to get a taste of what was thrown at Will’s face.
Appreciate. If it is something that is important to you, learn to appreciate. One can never go wrong with appreciation.
Quote of the day has got to come from Spongebob Squarepants (I love that yellow guy). He said;
Love is handing someone a gun and letting it point to your head, believing that he wouldn’t pull the trigger.
Oh, love.
Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her’.
I still haven’t quite gotten over this quote yet. It gets to me everytime I read it. A friend recently told me she once had it all, every tiny bit of the quote. Only thing is, it didn’t last. It feels good to know that the guy wants everyone to know you’re his. It’s a feeling no word can describe. But it’ll also have to last, wouldn’t it?
So yea.
Introducing Danbo, one of the characters in the manga, Yotsuba. I think he’s really cute. This pic says a lot, don’t you think?
p/s: iPhone is awesome.
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