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how do I know?

Published on March 5, 2012 in love and me. 2 Comments Tags: .

It is difficult to explain how he is the one. There isn’t a list of explicit reasons for why he is who I choose to be with. I choose him because he is him.

Not the best answer to the question, ‘how do you know he is the one?’. I know. When it comes to love, all you need to do is to strip away the ego, the pride, the self-centeredness, the ‘me’ factor and what is left is how you truly feel. Trusting your gut feelings isn’t always wrong. It doesn’t necessarily mean you are not thinking rationally. Sometimes, it is your subconsciousness trying to speak to you. Nothing wrong with listening to them once in a while.

When the time comes, you will know. At least I knew. It took me a while to realize and to really decide that yes, he is the one for me and I would want to make this relationship work. Ego and pride can get a little overwhelmed at times, because ultimately, we don’t want us to get hurt. Who would want that, right?

I like how certain things in life falls right into place, for some reason, making all those hard work and sacrifices all the more worth while.

So how do you know if he is the one? You just know.

*love*

 

it’s all good

Published on December 14, 2011 in love and me. 0 Comments Tags: , .

Being in a relationship is not all that easy. There are definitely sweet moments, but there are moments where you just feel like you want to pull your hairs out and scream. Ultimately, it rolls back to love. And having that feeling of loving that person, you’ll want to make things work. The last thing you want is to go on your separate ways if the feeling is right. If both parties are true to themselves and they respect each other, everything will work out just fine. No hiding, no lying, just pure honesty and love.

In the end, it’s about being by each other, being in love with each other everyday, holding hands and staying goofy, for the next 50 years or more.

sometimes it’s best not to know, or is it?

Published on December 6, 2011 in love and me. 0 Comments Tags: .

People say that being in a relationship, there are things that are better left unknown. Like a lie. Or a hidden secret. If one doesn’t know, it won’t hurt as much, right?

No. It hurts equally bad. Especially if it is a lie.

Being in a relationship is hard work. Both parties have to want to be in it enough to work towards making and-they-live-happily-ever-after come true. Should one give up, it is pretty much the end of the relationship.

Like I always say, it rolls down to how much you love that person. If he is worth it to you.

*sigh*

 

weekend

Published on December 2, 2011 in love and me. 0 Comments Tags: .

Ahh… the weekend. Nothing beats relaxing over the weekend. Awesome.

loving him

Published on November 28, 2011 in love, me and thoughts. 0 Comments Tags: , .

Being in a relationship requires a lot of hard work. It requires a lot of compromising, understanding the needs of one another and unlimited tolerance. Most importantly, it requires endless love and 101% of trust for one another.

The question has always been if you can continue to love him for 10 years, 30 years or 50 years and more, if our feelings will change eventually, if one will get bored with the relationship. Being in the now sometimes do make you ponder if the relationship will fall apart someday. Whether it’s because of him, or you, or basically just both parties.

And then that’s when one resolves to love. I know many has said that love is not everything. But if you think from the perspective of you taking certain actions because of love, love becomes all there is to a relationship. If there’s no love whatsoever, the actions that you take, the things that you do doesn’t really mean much, does it?

And then there’s trust. That one thing which is so difficult for one to earn yet many have chose to break it. Why? Beats me. A white lie is still a lie you know. Just because it’s white does not make it any much better.

It takes a lot of hard work to make a relationship work. Nonetheless, the core to making it work rolls down to love and trust. If the love and trust is all strong, working on a relationship wouldn’t be all that tough anymore. It really does come naturally.

p/s: I love you.

hold on

Published on November 22, 2011 in love and me. 0 Comments Tags: .

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There are times when holding my hand is the only thing you need to do. <3

xoxo

Published on November 20, 2011 in love and me. 0 Comments

Nothing beats waking up next to that one person who never fails to make you smile even when he is sound asleep.

Love, makes you all mushed up sometimes eh? :)

Good night. Xoxo.

p/s: Danbo has arrived. A series awaits!

to sacrifice it all

Published on August 11, 2011 in love, me and thoughts. 0 Comments Tags: .

Sometimes, loving someone means having the need to make certain sacrifices. It is easier said than done though. But that’s just how it is when you truly love someone. Of coz we are only human. After making the necessary sacrifices big or small, over a significant period of time, one may start to question the sacrifice that has been made. Doubts may arise, for some reason. And sometimes, all one needs is to rant or scream. After letting it all out, somehow, one knows that it would be alright again, and that sacrifice, is nothing but worth it.

Love. It does things. Even after many years.

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