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a series of overwhelming (but fortunate) events

The past few months have been really overwhelming. So overwhelmed that it has led to an increase in one’s stress level, both good and bad. Mostly good though.

Nonetheless, things are coming together in an orderly manner. The switch in the job roles have shown a seemingly positive effect for me at work. Having said that, I still have to strike a balance between work and my life. No, I am not going to sell my soul to the company. Putting a home together can be tough, but things are working out as planned. There’s traveling. There’s a course of events planned for the next couple of months.

And of course, there’s the diversion of watching Russell Peters live in KL.

He was so so good. His performance was totally outstanding. There wasn’t a dull moment. None. There wasn’t a moment where I wasn’t laughing my ass off. Absolutely awesome. So awesome, I wish his show was longer. The 90mins felt wayyyy shorter. Time really flies when you’re having fun! If he ever comes again, I’ll definitely be there again, in a heartbeat!

May is coming to an end (which is super scary). I do wish it would stop for a while. Just for a little while for me to catch my breath.

A holiday would be nice. :)

what would you do?

You know how everyone tells you it’s important to help others who are in need? You know how we have, in some ways or another donated some money to the orphanage or participated in helping with some of the cleaning activities at an old folks’ home? I’m sure most of us have contributed in some ways to help others when in need. Or have we?

Yesterday, as we were walking up the stairs to a bank, we met a lady that is paralyzed. One of her leg is gone. I couldn’t see if she is born that way or it has been amputated later in life. She was using her hands and butt to move herself, slowing inching over to the ATM. The man she was with did not help in anyway. He stood with his arms crossed, watching her from afar.

I wanted to use the ATM as well but I waited for her to pick the ATM she wanted to use and I’ll just use the other one. She asked me if this is the machine to withdraw money. I said yes. I saw as she slowly picked herself up, kneeling in front of the machine, trying to do what she had to do. I was done in a flash and was waiting for ndru to be done.

Suddenly, we heard a cry for help.

“Please, can someone help me. Please.”

There were 5 people in the bank at that time, me included. No one made a move.

“Can someone help me, please.”

I looked away. I was dying to help, but something in me made me stop. I looked outside the bank and found the man she was with went down the stairs, again with arms crossed, waiting for her.

She wasn’t in her best condition. Aside from being paralyzed, it is pretty obvious that she has not showered for days. Her clothing is not good either and there is a chance she may have been an abused victim.

We walked away after we were done. I genuinely feel bad for not helping her. But I was scared that she may just be an act and that I would be harmed for being good. It’s not an excuse, but I really couldn’t bring myself to helping her. Till now, I still feel bad.

:(

I guess I’m not that good of a person after all. I’m still learning. Perhaps it was coz I was judgmental. The man with the crossed arms made me fear her.

I’ve been wondering, if given a chance to turn back time, would I have done differently? What about you? Would you have done different from what I did?

it is what it is

You can only plan so much. The rest is up to where destiny wants to take you. It is what it is.

The past 2 weeks have been filled with nothing but great learning and information. Not just in the context of my career, but in the context of life as well. So many things to learn, so many things to note. But it is these life lessons that will make one more knowledgeable and wiser.

Life. It is what it is. In a good way.

p/s: 10 more hours and I’m HOME!

away

I miss you. So much. <3

12 more days? Hmm…

humor me

After a crazy and awful long day at work, laughter can be one very important cure.

Russell Peters first. And now The Big Bang Theory. Keep the crazies coming Sheldon.

I totally need a break.

how do I know?

It is difficult to explain how he is the one. There isn’t a list of explicit reasons for why he is who I choose to be with. I choose him because he is him.

Not the best answer to the question, ‘how do you know he is the one?’. I know. When it comes to love, all you need to do is to strip away the ego, the pride, the self-centeredness, the ‘me’ factor and what is left is how you truly feel. Trusting your gut feelings isn’t always wrong. It doesn’t necessarily mean you are not thinking rationally. Sometimes, it is your subconsciousness trying to speak to you. Nothing wrong with listening to them once in a while.

When the time comes, you will know. At least I knew. It took me a while to realize and to really decide that yes, he is the one for me and I would want to make this relationship work. Ego and pride can get a little overwhelmed at times, because ultimately, we don’t want us to get hurt. Who would want that, right?

I like how certain things in life falls right into place, for some reason, making all those hard work and sacrifices all the more worth while.

So how do you know if he is the one? You just know.

*love*

 

RIP

It was saddening to see you go, but I believe you will be going to a better place. May you RIP dearest 4 kor.

Apple the Awesome, again!

The first Apple product that I own is an iPod Nano 1st generation which I have purchased from a store in Hong Kong back in 2005. I remember vividly about how excited I have been after my purchase though I do have to pay a relatively high price for a nano back then (and for some reason it was cheaper in Hong Kong). My iPod Nano has been my loyal travel companion for a good 3 to 4 year. There has been no problems all these years and the experience of using it has been absolutely wonderful.

In November of last year, I received an email from Apple denoting that there has been a problem with the battery of  the iPod Nano 1st generation, and the one that I own may be in the list of impacted units! Apple announced that they will be doing a worldwide recall on all the affected units and a replacement program is set in place. At first, I thought it was a fraud. So I went online and did a google search on this replacement program and realized that it is true!

In Malaysia, in order to get a replaced unit, you would have to go through the official re-seller. In Penang, it would be Switch. I had to bring my unit down to Switch for them to examine if my unit is an impacted unit. At that point, I was still a little reluctant about replacing my iPod, simply because it has been one with me for so long! 6 years! And, I like the rotating scroll piece thing (I don’t know what you call them). I still think it’s cool! But on the other hand, if my unit has battery problems, I don’t wish for the iPod to explode in my face. After confirming that my iPod is one of the impacted units, for safety purposes, I decided to go ahead with the replacement program.

It is said in many forums that Apple would be replacing the units with another 1st generation unit. Some people were complaining about getting a new old model, but to me it’s fine. I was a bit uncomfortable at first about possibly getting a refurbished unit, but I thought to myself, better a good unit than a bad one which could blow up in your face.

Now, at this point, I was amazed with Apple’s after sales service. For a product that has been around for 7 years and has obsolete probably 5 years ago, I am surprised that Apple is still willing to do a 1 to 1 replacement. Although some people said this is a norm and that companies should indeed give a replacement, but I don’t think that necessarily holds true for many companies.

I was told that I have to wait for a good 4 to 6 weeks before the replacement unit arrives. The unit arrived a little late, and on the Friday before the Chinese New Year week, I received a phone call from the Switch service center to inform me that my iPod Nano has arrived. And it came with a pleasant surprise. It was not a 1st generation iPod Nano, but we have all been replaced with a 6th generation iPod Nano. Yes, you hear me. It was the latest model. I’ve known of this news through forums that they were replacing with the latest model, but it wasn’t until I see it that I truly believe that this was happening! Although I still prefer the design on the 1st generation Nano, this new one works just fine for me. I am not going to complain. :)

It is interesting how Apple is quick to change something which was going to look bad on them, having to have the problems with the battery, into a pleasant after sales service experience for their users. As I’ve said in my previous blog post about the experience I have had with Apple on my swollen battery, I would dare say that without a doubt, I would continue to purchase products from Apple. Based on the experiences that I have had, I strongly feel that Apple is here to provide all the necessary services to ensure that my experience of using their product is nothing but pleasant and safe.

For now, Apple, I shall be loyal to you. ;)



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